Teaching : Do not say anything to the one who arrives, do not stop the one who leaves but do not forget to enquire !
Explanation : In the first sentence ‘say’, means to ask. ‘One who arrives’, means the one who is born; we cannot ask him ‘Why are you born ?’ The creation of Nature can never stop. ‘Do not stop the one who leaves’, means do not stop the one who is dying; we cannot make him stay back. ‘Do not forget to enquire’, means one must not forget to ask him, ‘Who are you truly ?’ This question at least, would encourage him to make an effort to know his true identity.
(Ref. : Sanatan’s Holy text – The Teachings of Saint Bhaktaraj Maharaj)